RopeTop
TECHNIQUE
The basic fucking technique is simple thrusting – pumping the hips in order to drive the cock in and out. The speed, force and angle can be varied, which will prolong the fuck. For a virgin you should start off VERY slowly and gently. He may be able to take more heavy duty action after a while, but don't overdo it.
Variations on thrusting include:
| Repenetration: pulling out all the way and then reinserting – This allows the anus to close completely, so that the bottom experiences the full penetration repeatedly. The anus is stretched open over and over again, and the outer surface is continually stimulated more so than if the cock stays inside (as the nerve endings that register pleasure and pain are concentrated around the anus rather than the rectum). This requires plenty of lubrication, and is not recommended for virgin bottoms as it can put too much strain on a ring that does not readily relax. |
| Gyration: moving the pelvis in a circular motion so that the cock stirs around inside. This can be combined with deep and shallow penetration, and for variety change between clockwise and anticlockwise motion. |
| Bouncing in: using a spring mattress to enhance the thrusting, or take over from it completely; either by literally bouncing up and down or by pushing down on the mattress with your hands either side of the bottom’s body in order to bounce him onto the cock. |
| Jumping in: using gravity to enhance the in-thrust; similar to bouncing in but more forceful. For maximum effect, pull out as far as you can without coming out completely, and lift your feet up (by bending your knees) on the in-thrust so that you fall back into position. |
| Press-up: with the bottom lying flat on his front, assume the press-up position, then lower and raise your whole body. This works best when the actual penetration is the only point of contact between your body and his. |
Positions
There are two basic positions for male intercourse:
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1 - Rear entry - which includes missionary, in which the bottom is lying on his front and the top lies on top of him, and doggy style in which the bottom is on his hands and knees and the top is kneeling or standing on the floor with him on the bed. You can kiss if he arches his back slightly. Fucking while standing can be tricky; if the bottom straightens too much while being fucked from behind (eg: up against a wall) your cock will slip out. |
| 2 - Face-to-face – which includes the classic face-to-face position in which the bottom lies back and the top lifts his legs up. You can reach his balls, nipples and cock, and if you bend forward you can kiss him. You can also see his face and gauge how he is feeling. As you hold his legs or place his ankles on your shoulders he can wank himself. |
| If you have the strength to hold him up off the floor with his legs wrapped round your waist you can penetrate him but not fuck at all vigorously. |
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The Jackup is a variation of face to face in which you push the bottom’s legs back towards his head so that his torso is raised into a vertical or near-vertical position and his anus is pointing upwards. This position allows deeper penetration and is often intensely pleasurable for him because the angle of his body is pressing against the angle of your erection, increasing the pressure of your cockhead against his prostate.
You can easily change between the two rear entry positions, and between the two face-to-face positions, without pulling out. You can change between rear entry and face-to-face without pulling out, but not as easily! |
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A third basic position is halfway between face-to-face and rear entry; penetrating him while he lies on his side with you kneeling.
You can stabilise this by holding up his upper leg. A variation on this is for him to partially twist round while you fuck him from behind, drawing one leg up towards his chest. It helps if you hold this leg in place with your hand or knee, and then you can nibble on his nearest nipple, which you may not be able to reach in the face-to-face position. If he likes nipple stimulation, the bottom will LOVE this, especially if you can keep up a fuck rhythm at the same time (though you probably won't be able to fuck very vigorously in this position). The bottom may have a favourite position, but most will like a bit of variety. If it's his first time be especially careful each time you penetrate him. If the fuck goes on for a long time, watch that the lube doesn't dry out, and consider changing the condom. |
Enchancements
Most bottoms will masturbate themselves while being fucked; if you're feeling particularly gallant you might volunteer to take over this task and fuck him at the same time. It is certainly not uncommon for a bottom to cum from this double stimulation, however many guys will prefer to wank themselves as they get closer to orgasm, and take over at this point (obviously they know what to do better than anyone else!)
Most men like to be kissed when being fucked as it enhances the intimacy and closeness. Depending upon the position this can be all over the body, including the back, back of the neck, ears, calves and feet. Some like to be nibbled or even bitten but make sure he's into it first! Verbal stimulation can be a turn-on for the bottom, and this can be anything from telling him how beautiful he is to harsh words or shouting.
Different locations other than the bed can add some variety; the floor, the sofa, the kitchen, out of doors (watch you don't get arrested, though!).
Dominant
Many bottoms like a top to be 'dominant'/'masterful' or even a bit rough. You can introduce this and gauge from his reactions whether he likes it or not. This can be expressed as a firm, tight grip on the ankles (in the face-to-face position), thighs (when he's on top), arms (when lying on top of him) or hips (when fucking him doggy-style). When fucking while lying on top you can use a kind of wrestler hold by gripping him around the chest or putting your arms under his armpits and lacing your fingers across the back of his neck (Full Nelson). Any kind of restraint, as well as being a turn-on in itself, also prevents him from masturbating himself and perhaps coming too quickly, thereby prolonging the fuck. Being fucked naked by a fully-clothed top is another dominance fantasy.
Some guys like to be spanked while being fucked, which is easier in some positions than it is in others! Bondage is a major tonic for many, though it probably isn't a good idea for a virgin. More elaboate enhancements such as dildos, vibrators, nipple clamps, fetishes such as leather, rubber or uniforms, fantasy role play, etc. are also fairly common but you do need to establish that these are on the agenda BEFORE you start!